Have you checked www.hparts.com on those parts yet? They are anywhere from
40-60% of dealer list. I've used them on many occasions and highly
recommend them. Additionally,
http://www.handa-accessories.com/crvelect02.html had the security system for
$163 and the hood switch for $27.60.
He may be refering to the keyless entry system (that is required for the
security system), but you don't need that since you have an EX. Sounds like
your dealer is less than honest. Have him give you a part number and cost
listing of *everything* required for the alarm install.
Erik
www.e-mcsquared.org